You are probably asking about the zebra server then. I've setup three instances on my servers where zebra runs on a different server than the staff interface. I changed three things to get mine working. First is the listen tags. Each listen tag has to have a unique port across all of your zebra instances. So I ended up with six different ports in use by zebra. Second is the port number in the server/explain/serverinfo tag for each server. I don't know if this is important, so I changed it to match the listen tag. Last, each server has an associated serverinfo tag where the user and password is defined. I would strongly recommend changing these from the default to something else.
I hope this helps. It's been a while since I setup my servers this way and I may have forgotten something.